
Helmingham and the Tollemache family have been together
for many hundreds of years. The Hall and the old oak
trees that you see today have seen much of the history
of England pass before them, and many generations
of this family.
The Tollemache family has lived in Suffolk from shortly
after the Norman Conquest to the present day. Their
home for the first 400 years was at Bentley, near
lpswich, and although there was a proud boast, Before
the Normans into England came, Bentley was my seat
and Tollemache my name, it seems now certain that
the family came over from Avranches on the Normandy
coast. Their name was spelt Talemache, meaning ‘purse
bearer’, and it is recorded that Hugh Tollemache
was Purse Bearer to Henry 1.
They remained at Bentley as
squires and knights throughout the turbulent years
of those early centuries, fighting for both Henry
II against the Welsh and Edward I against the Scots
and quite often against their neighbours to retain
their lands, Two Tollemache knights from Bentley fought
at the Battle of Crécy against the French in 1346.
However, in 1487, John Tollemache
married Elizabeth Joyce, the heiress of Helmingham,
and his son Lionel also married a Joyce. further cementing
the union, and so they moved to Helmingham where the
Joyce family home of Creke Hall stood. John Tollemache
and his wife proceeded to pull this down and build
Helmingham, completed in 1510, as it stands today.
surrounded by its deep moat, serene gardens and deer
park.
It must have been some years after my family moved
to Helmingham that they started work on the gardens,
but old maps and drawings show that the original